This post from my favorite women website is such full of insights. This article will surely be of help to all my amazing girl readers here in Teensy Weensy Gal. Friendship is a very important thing for all of us, even to those who claim that they’re loners. People need company every now now and then, and our friends influence us a lot and vice versa.
I will surely not forget a turning moment in my life when I finally decided to cut off my connection with this girlfriend who has always been an ‘energy sucker’ to me and to our other friends. She sucks our happy, vibrant and radiant vibes almost everyday, so we finally decided to leave her. We want a circle of girlfriends who are objectively positive, supportive of each other’s dreams and intimate with each other’s souls. We want genuine loving relationship, and I don’t know why she’s always been the ‘nega’. She seems to always want to point out the bad in everything and dwell on them forever. Some of her beliefs and values come from her own insecurities. Worst, most of the time, she’s not authentic with herself!!! We tried to help her, telling about her bad attitude and ‘bad mouth’. We did hold on to her because we all want to be of helping hand to her as she change what needs to be ‘really changed’. Many people are quite well aware of her weaknesses that are starting to be toxic to the people around her. In the end, she did filled us to our brim. She don’t want to change, so we let go because it’s already killing us.
“And you know what? That’s the best thing we have ever done. We felt infinite and free after that.”
So, dear amazing girls out there, take friendships seriously because they affect us more than we think they are. Don’t ever hesitate in unfriending those who really needs to be lost in your life. I’ve heard one of our classmates said that she and her circle of friends don’t just surrender on someone just like what we did. But the truth is? She didn’t know our whole story. We got more and more depressed each and everyday because of our ‘toxic’ friend. Walking away from someone who’s mean, insecure, negative and unauthentic is always the right thing to do if after trying to fix things still didn’t helped.
You are a passionate human being.
You are a positive woman.
You are radiant.
You are beautiful.
You deserve people who has the same values as you and people who are ready to ‘connect’.
Read the amazing article by Renee Wade by clicking this link: Is Having Low Value Friends Even Worth It? – Femininity – Dating & Relationship Advice for Women – The Feminine Woman